Post by nadiraamalina on Mar 21, 2013 7:01:13 GMT -5
I've been betrayed by people a lot and every time it happens my trust in people decreases. It's not really betrayal exactly, but more like finding out what a person truly is. And since that happens early in the friendship, there's not really a lot of friendship to lose, but it's just really when people don't act they way you wish they would.
Yes. I think it's something that everyone experiences at least once in their lifetime, big or small. No? Okay.. I'm just the weird one ;(
In middle school I had a friend and I admit that she was really popular. All the guys liked her and even girls wanted to be her best friend. One day, the popular girl got really mad at me and my best friend. Suddenly, the next day, my best friend ignored me all day and when I finally asked her why, she said, "Oh the popular girl was still mad at you so I was mad at you too" I felt so horrible after I heard that. urggggggg haha
Last Edit: Mar 22, 2013 8:12:20 GMT -5 by yeajinchoi
I felt betrayal once. This is why i don't trust anybody now and don't share my secrets with anybody. When I was a kid i had one friend and told my secrets to but he spread the secret and made it kept it a secret no more. I felt very betrayed and after that i didn't keep any friendship with him.
ive experience big things like that twice..once in elementary and middle school. in elementary i was accused by my best friends (that time) of stealing my friend's sister's phone and i was really mad and there were rumors about it...my friends and some of the teachers did not trust me and thought i took it...i was really hurt during that time and it made me cry, but i told the principal and then we made it all right and my "best friend" apologized. however...it took me some time to trust my friends again. in middle school, my friend stole my phone and ipod. there were two friends who was accused of it and they both said they did not take it...i got my phone and ipod back later after things were settled...i again had a hard time because it happened to me in elementary too...i couldnt really trust my friends again for some time.
and i also have been betrayed several times like telling my secrets to some friend i thought i could trust, but having them spill out the secrets, having friends ignoring me because of some rumors my other friend made...i cried alot secretly during elementary and middle school years, but now i feel i could trust my friends again